Evocateur

“How have I contributed?” vs blame and denial

When the gunman in Arizona took lives and attacked Gabby Giffords, it was inevitable that the political arguments would ensue. Imagine if a union member had shot an elected Tea Party official; the right would likely have blamed the left. We all know what the argument is now, with use of cross hairs and the atmosphere of contempt being questioned, and individual blamelessness being declared. No matter the issue these days, when a wrong happens,[…]

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Have you hugged a paradox recently?

We need more wondering and less pontificating. One problem with the media today: almost zero dialogue and listening. PBS’s Charlie Rose looks like he wants to learn something and Larry King (bye Larry) seemed genuinely curious. So many of the rest are about talking points, or making fun of worthy opponents’ worst ideas. What is the level of your thinking recently? Have you gotten confused by the social experiment called democracy−how can we have individual[…]

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Your Past Holds Some Secrets to Your Purpose

The question of life purpose was in the air for the last several years. Now, in a recession, when people are questioning the hard push on careers that have stalled, or where already shaky loyalty to the company has been further damaged with drastic cost-cutting moves, purpose and meaning is still much in the air. “Purposes reveal themselves in many ways, often showing up as an insult to our ego and the very thing that[…]

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